cole
June 10, 2026 at 2:37:38 PM
☆﹕ username ?:
disfavouredones
☆﹕ how are you doing ! :
panicking / in pain
How do u handle a break with your partner, mine just said we’re gonna take a week one and see if they still want 2 be together
Replied on: June 10, 2026 at 4:29:45 PM
I'm no therapist but since I kinda understand how you're feeling, I'll try to help!! ok!!
you're NOT obligated to take my words as I'm going to use my own experience as an example
firstly communicate : hear THEM out . take their feelings, let them criticize you I know it's hard but they probably have a lot in their heart and you may be hurting them without realizing, that's at least what I did, I kept seeking a lot of reassurance from my partner due to my paranoia and didn't think about communicating and asking about their feelings, which was something I should've done
I know it's hard to be separated from your partner, even if it's only for a week, but you shouldn't let it be a weight on your chest. Go talk to people, go socialize, be happy, send them love everyday (if you can still text them) and talk about your day to them!! it's not doomed, you are both just going through things and I hope you'll stay together!
AGAIN please take into count your partner's feelings, support each other, love each other
if in the worst case they leave you then it's not your fault!!!! it happens, you're young, you're not doomed you'll not die the tunnel is not endless my love
go see a psychiatrist/psychologist, talk about it to a professional, don't let it ruin you you don't deserve it